Valentine’s Day is here and there is love in the air!
Valentine’s Day gifts and packages are everywhere, and there is a buzz of nervous boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands and wives trying to figure out how to show their significant other how much they care.
Even if you are not very romantic, you can still plan a perfect Valentine’s Day date. There is no shame in seeking assistance since we all have a lot to learn about love and the various ways to express it.
Here are a steps to creating the ideal romantic experience for your loved one:
1) Find the perfect date
How much love do you have for your partner, and how far are you willing to go to show it?
After considering how much you love your partner and how you want to express that love, it’s time to get to work.
There are numerous valentine’s day date ideas to choose from, ranging from a romantic dinner to a cozy night at home.
- Romantic dinner
Nothing says “I love you” like a romantic dinner for two at a classic restaurant.
Since many restaurants have Valentine’s Day special menus and prices, this could be the break you’ve been looking for to finally take your lover to that 5-star restaurant in town. Or it could be an opportunity to try something new together.
If you’re not sure where to go, a restaurant that serves their favorite food is a safe bet.
- Special Valentine’s Day Activities
While a romantic dinner tops the list, restaurants aren’t the only places preparing for Valentine’s Day.
Look for special showings of love stories or music performances. Check to see if your favourite location, art gallery, theatre, spa or bar is hosting a special Valentine’s Day event.
- Cozy night at home
You can sometimes make a Valentine’s Day special simply by staying at home! Especially when you consider the current state of things in Nigeria.
But this isn’t just any random night spent lazing on the couch. It will take some forethought to pull off a memorable and romantic date at home.
Begin the evening with a home-cooked meal that you prepared yourself or order in. There are several food vendors on social media that’ll do this for you at a minimal fee. Create a space for the two of you to spend quality time together after dinner.
2) Make Reservations
A reservation should be the most important part of your plan because the whole plan might crumble without it. Make an early reservation for dinner at their favourite restaurant or a romantic show.
Since valentine’s Day is arguably the busiest date night of the year. The last thing you want to do is try to make it special only to be turned away or have to wait an hour somewhere.
Call and confirm with your preferred restaurant ahead of time. Print event tickets instead of going digital, and arrive early to get good seats.
And even if you want to stay at home, you need to plan ahead and put all things in place for your romantic evening.
3) Pick out a great outfit
After deciding what to do and ensuring that your top Valentine’s Day option is available, you must decide what to wear!
This is not a casual outing in jeans and a t-shirt.
Valentine’s Day is a day to dress up and look your best for your special someone. It’s a small gesture that both impresses them and demonstrates your willingness to go the extra mile.
4) Articulate your words and feelings
Perhaps this is your first Valentine’s Day together and you’re not sure how serious or forward to be. Maybe it’s your 10th, and you’re at a loss for new ways to make Valentine’s Day special.
It all comes down to the message you want to convey. As much as everyone enjoys hearing the words “I love you,” chances are you say them frequently to your partner and they might not be as special as the first time you said them.
Use Valentine’s Day to fully express your thoughts and feelings by preparing what to say day(s) before. You can memorize these words or even read them out loud to your partner.
You could even use Valentine’s Day to make progress in your relationship commitments. The next step could be receiving a key to your apartment, moving in together, or getting down on one knee!
5) A gift to remember
The final piece of this special day’s mystery is a gift that will last longer than a delicious dinner or a show’s encore.
You should get something for your significant other Like a piece of jewelry, something they need, such as a book they’ve been meaning to read or new equipment for a hobby they enjoy.
If you’re at a loss for what gift to buy, get a bouquet of flowers with a handwritten letter from you.
